He would become upset when she wanted to spend time with other friends and family.
Their dating relationship lasted through her junior year in high school.
The yelling, the threatening text messages, the hitting went on for months. "He slammed me on the ground and was like get in the car," Harris said.
"He snatched the phone, and he started hitting me." Harris lived to tell her story, but 15-year-old Danielle Locklear died after her ex-boyfriend, Je'Michael Malloy, strangled her and tied weights to her body before dumping her in water.
Domestic violence is a choice that men make about the power and privilege they assume, and the way they use it.
Yet so often it is framed as a choice the victim makes: that she chooses violence by not leaving, by falling in love, by giving him a second chance, by not wanting to be on her own. How can women ever move on from abusive men in a culture that tells them the man is not really, truly at fault?
Kaylah Harris was 18 when she first experienced dating violence.
A spokesperson for Safe Connections advised parents not to force their child to break up with their boyfriend or girlfriend.
The question is how parents should recognize the signs and not just dismiss it as teen drama.
According to Loveis Respect.org, 1 in 3 teens will experience dating violence.
But in spite of temporary victories, violence never brings permanent peace. Even today we raise our hand against our brother...
We have perfected our weapons, our conscience has fallen asleep, and we have sharpened our ideas to justify ourselves as if it were normal we continue to sow destruction, pain, death. Pope Francis Hiroshima has become a metaphor not just for nuclear war but for war and destruction and violence toward civilians.